Life as a GPS
26 May 2012 4 Comments
in Articles Tags: cars, Chicago, decision, goals, GPS, life, road, RPM, technology, transportation, travel, vacation
Lately, I was thinking on visiting Chicago, where I’ve never been before. Mainly, because of one particular restaurant I want to dine at, RPM Italian. I thought that if I wanted to go to that city, I would need someone like a guide or friend who knows the area to go with me. Jokingly, I was thinking that instead, I could just use a GPS device. And that’s when it hit me. Life IS like a GPS. It can help us find our way to a location, but first we need to decide where we want to go. Besides, this device wont take you anywhere specific if you don’t know where you want to go. Once we decide on a restaurant or a friend’s home we’re meaning to visit, we type in the address and we’re on our way with the GPS telling us where to turn and such. Life is like a GPS. If you don’t know what you’re striving for or what you want to do, you wont be able to get anywhere. Once you settle on that address, though, that’s when we start driving towards that goal and taking all the turns- and maybe some turns may be a mistake, so that’s when we turn around and keep pushing, and keep going, and we keep driving until we get there. However, some places might be undiscovered, and those are for us to explore and leave a trail (in a such situation, consider the quote) “Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.” But besides that, I think the satellites can cover almost every place you choose 
In the Shadow of a Blog
25 May 2012 1 Comment
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One of my other interests that I have, is fashion- it’s like a part of me and who I am. So, recently I created a new website, A LA MODE, in tribute to this inspiration/interest I have. On the blog/site I put together outfits and clothing items, that suit my taste. In addition, I discuss celebrity fashion that might’ve taken place at a Hollywood studded premiere or such. I noticed that many of you, who are my followers, also run fashion blogs so I decided to put up this post to let you know, in case you wanted to check it out. This website, Life is a Gift, is one I made nearly 2 years ago. Since my new one is registered under the same user name/web address, it is highly tinted and people usually don’t come to it due to the web address, hottabb, the address to this site. So please visit; A LA MODE It’s also in the “Links” section on the right hand side column below. Let me know what you think 
Is Silence a Lie?
24 May 2012 6 Comments
in Articles Tags: philosophy, truth, lie, false
Is being silent the equivalent to lying? Recently I got into an argument with a friend. They said that if asked a question, and one chooses not to answer in any way, then they are lying. I opposed this statement. If an individual doesn’t say anything about a particular subject, then they did not put out any information- yet they did not make a false statement. It’s fair to say, though, that maybe this person is hiding something, however that is not an acted false statement. I still stand for my word, but I can stand corrected with the right explanation. However, I decided to turn to all of you- is silence a lie?
Put Yourself First
22 May 2012 5 Comments
in Articles Tags: charity, community service, health, help, mike litman, money, piece of advice, world
Not too long ago, I was speaking to a friend, and I heard a truly interesting piece of advice. Put yourself first. I know what you must be thinking, that this is selfish, but let me explain. I, myself absolutely LOVE to give people (especially the close ones to me) presents. And not just simply gift cards, or money but true presents- something personal. However, before you start caring about other people around you, you must remember to care about yourself. You have to be in the safe situation to be able to help and care for others. Also, if you don’t care about yourself and don’t respect yourself for you, then neither will the people surrounding you. Also, don’t give it your all. Technically, to healthily support various charities and such, people should only give about 10% of what they earn because it’s also dangerous to you to give all or almost everything you have because then, even though you’ll be helping others, you’ll be doing yourself harm. “Save yourself, before you start saving the world.”- Mike Litman.
Furry Attraction
08 May 2012 10 Comments
in Articles Tags: animals, labrador puppy, little animal, short moment
I notice myself at the verge of tears when an ASPCA commercial is on the television- it forces me to switch to a different channel for a short moment of the time. However, when commercials come on that speak of children sick with cancer or the hungry, I just don’t get the same reaction, so I don’t usually change the channel. I don’t know if it’s just me, but the same concept applies here. Imagine, you’re sitting there at work, when a newly hired person comes into the office. Most will probably introduce themselves sooner or later but at the same time, most don’t get extremely happy or excited with the new employee. Now look here, you’re sitting at work when a small, little, labrador puppy sniffs its way in- the public’s normal reaction…”AAAWWWW!!!!”…. and everyone rushes over to pet and to meet the little guy. And obviously if the new employee was extremely hairy and furry, it wouldn’t draw people closer, probably scare them off actually. See my point? This is how things are with people. Here’s another situation; you see a homeless person out on the street. Some may give them a dollar or two, and some may avoid the scene. However, when we see a dog, homeless, starving, out on the street we fall apart (or people like me tend to) and we want so much to just help them, we want to save and care for them. There is something within us that may draw us to a small little animal, yet not a person, a sort of our own species. I couldn’t help but wonder….why the huge difference?
Conceited or Confident? -The Fine Line Between the Two
04 May 2012 7 Comments
in Articles Tags: caliber, confidence, leadership, politics
I try to stay confident at all times, because in that way, I know I’ll be respected and not ignored. However, some people tell me that due to the fact that I respect and carefully take care of myself, I’m conceited. I definitely do not agree with this fact, yet I see how in through the individual’s eyes, it could seem so. In order to be confident, one has to hold their head high, be a leader, be social, own their body, and know what they want. When I sense some vibrations such those when being around another person of my caliber and age, I immediately know how I can and cannot act with them- or in other words, I gain respect to them. When I feel that people aren’t too confident of their-selves, I feel like I can easily tell them what to do, and how to do it- I can easily gain control of the person, because I have a stable confidence built up within, and they do not. So, this is definitely an important factor to establish within yourself as soon as possible. On the subject, a person is conceited or vain, when they focus on themselves on large amounts of time, speak mostly of themselves, and think that they are the most beautiful person on the planet. Obviously to be conceited, one has taught themselves the skill of confidence. which they greatly use from then and on. If an individual is vain, however, they usually wont try to lead people, and like to work by themselves or have someone else do that work for them. They usually don’t process and/or cooperate well in a group. This person is also using confidence in a self- centered way, which most likely, doesn’t draw peers closer to them. Work carefully with your confidence, for if the skill isn’t used correctly, you might just turn out with vain. So, conceited or confident- which will you be, and how will you be categorized?
Celebrating 100 Followers!
30 Apr 2012 5 Comments
Thank you to all of you who have subscribed. I opened and started this site up 2 years ago, and it has never blossomed so much before as it did this year. I am glad that you all are enjoying what I have to say, as I don’t really have a theme, and I tend to write about things that come to mind. I don’t know if it’s much, but for my 100th follower, rainey, I will be publishing the link to your site in my Blogroll section in the right hand side bar. Thank you to everyone, and I wish you all to achieve the same success, unless you already have, of course- then just keep expanding and growing. I will definitely be working on some new pieces that might interest or inspire you. My site is always open and welcome to you, 24/7, so visit any time. Thanks again!
Jennifer Aniston Engaged!
26 Apr 2012 6 Comments
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It’s official- Jen Aniston is engaged to Justin Theroux. Although this news is highly fortunate and surprising, it is interesting how this confirmation comes a couple days after the Brangelina announcement. So, was it planned this way? Some sources are even saying that Jen was invited to Angelina Jolie’s and Brad Pit’s wedding , which is still in front of them, far In the future. This is ironic since Aniston had once dissed Jolie at a passed comment towards her, after Jennifer split from Brad. Hopefully all goes well for both couples, however I think we all felt for Jennifer Aniston when she was abandoned or even exchanged by Brad Pit after his movie with Jolie, Mr. And Mrs. Smith. Therefore, seven years later, I’m thrilled she has found that someone special
Don’t Be Realistic, Dream
12 Apr 2012 11 Comments
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Sometimes, I encounter people who act upon situations too realistically. For example, a conversation with my peers came up, and I spoke of attending Stanford University. Now, I have had this dream since I was a fourth grader. My parents and another couple of their friends, took me to see Stanford’s campus for the very first time. He might’ve not thought that this would stick with me for the rest of my life, but my father said to me, “someday, you will be attending, and studying here.” I forever, remembered, and ever since, Stanford has been my dream school. So, my friend was doubting me. That is incorrect of her though. She was acting narrow-mindedly. As small children, we have the wildest, craziest dreams and as we grow older, we limit ourselves greatly. It’s not our fault though. We look up towards our parents, and how they restrict themselves. But when the world is so full of opportunities, it’s a bit crazy. Our realism restricts our minds. The way most of us are brought up, though, are guardians say, “don’t touch that” or “stop, that’s bad, don’t do it”. Afterwards, we are more cautious. However, when we dream for ourselves, most will start out with, “I want this, but I can’t because___.” Stop with the, “…but, I can’t because___.” It doesn’t matter, because as long as you know what you want to achieve, you will get there. Do not doubt yourself, for when you do, you begin to limit your mind which is the only thing in your way. If we take my dream, for instance, currently I just focus on having good grades such as nothing below an “A-” as well as extracurricular activities and sports. I’m working towards my dream. It is not what my life is centered around, but it always remains in the back of my mind, with anything I set out to do. I just think, how will this action that I am about to take, a POSITIVE contribution towards my dream? How will this affect me? If one of your peers doubts you, then they are narrow in their dreams and thoughts. Don’t go down with them, instead take them up with you. Tell them all the reasons why they CAN do something when they say why they cannot. Dream on my friends, don’t be realistic. Instead, expand your mind’s boundaries and dream
Vegas, Baby!
09 Apr 2012 8 Comments
in Articles Tags: bellagio fountains, bellagio hotel, hotel and spa, modern shopping, spectacular city, travel
Sigh, Las Vegas…my most favorite location and city in the world! Just so happened that I had also the benefit of visiting this spectacular city this last week, and boy was it something. I’m shocked of how much I loved it because this was my third time there! And can I tell you, it was super hard to leave the place. The atmosphere is so beautiful and upbeat. There’s no stress, no tension. When you’re in Vegas, just leave all your worries behind and have fun.
First off, of course, the hotels…all the wonderful and beautiful, breathtaking hotels and their casinos. Gorgeous! Different hotels have their own different and individual styles. Some, like the one I stayed at, Vdara, are very modern. Vdara, for example is a very newly built hotel which is located by another modern styled hotel and casino on the strip, Aria. Of course there are many many other splendid hotels, such as the Cosmopolitan and the Crystals, which are also very very modern. And then there are the tasteful, Europe- inspired hotels such as the Bellagio, Monte Carlo, Venetian, and Paris. Our family is non smoking though, so Vdara provided the perfect sleeping headquarters due to the fact of it being a smoke free hotel and spa, probably the only one such located directly on the strip. It stands right alongside the beautiful Bellagio hotel, which is a great benefit because you’re not far from the fantastic Bellagio fountains and the gorgeous hotel itself.
When we went to Vegas, we also had a bit of shopping to do in mind. So we located an amazing and modern shopping mall across the street from the Wynn and Encore casinos and hotels. It’s convenient to do the shopping while at Vegas, because the taxes are much lower then in the state I live in and the mall is conveniently located, especially if you stay on the strip as I did.
The dining was expensive, but worth it. The food was amazing and the atmosphere was cozy and tasteful. While there, we visited a few restaurants, those including two of now my favorites, The Eiffel Tower Restaurant and Todd English’s Olives. Eiffel Tower Restaurant was located, obviously, in the center, towards the top of the Eiffel tower in Las Vegas’s Paris hotel. It provided a fantastic atmosphere and the food was highly gourmet class in the French style. Olive’s was at the Bellagio and even had a patio that came out right to the Bellagio Fountains, the dishes there were also very high class Italian.
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Walking through the city and hotels though, I knew I had to capture the sights for the third time. But with every trip there, I notice something new, as new hotels are being constructed and features of the beautiful location are renewed. Therefore, this city is never stuck in time, for it is one by day and another by nightfall. As for shows, that’s quite another subject Las Vegas is a hub for. A show is definitely worth going to. However, we ran out of time due to the Grand Canyon and such, so we ended up not attending one this trip. Last year, however, we went to Criss Angel’s Believe by Cirque Du Soleil. It was completely AMAZING! I loved it sooo much. The show is still performed at the Luxor today by the magician of the country and year, Criss Angel the Mindfreak. With him, is Vegas’ favorite circus, Cirque Du Soleil, which also does many of its own shows such as “O”, Mystere, The Beatles- LOVE, and Viva Elvis. Visit soon, and you will not regret it, in fact, like me you’ll not want to leave and just be nagging yourself to go back and stay : )
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